Reaction vs. Creation

We know and have practiced being the observer. Each time we do this we create the space in which to respond and not react. Reaction is the language and action of the Ego. Reaction is the manufacturer of all that we do not desire. Every time we react in a moment we allow whatever is the pattern, to become more ingrained in ourselves. A reaction of anger gives us more to be angry about. A reaction of lack has more lack show up.  A reaction of doubt has us feeling uninspired. Inspiration can show up in the moment we observe. When we create space or a pause as observation we disconnect thoughts and patterns that exist in ourselves. In other words observation is an order to stop what is happening and start creating from what we desire. To respond is creation. You now have a choice in each moment. This choice is reaction or creation.
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Happy New Year- Happy New Day!

We wish for you that this time of year reminds you of the clean slate you have to begin with again. We wish for you that this be a time of renewal and rebirth. We wish for you that each day is that of a fresh start with new possibility and that each new day brings with itself a commitment to be your best. 

Seven Secrets for a great start to 2007

Identify you core values and intentions

Create new beliefs from the biggest challenge you face

Write down every goal you want to achieve this year

Make commitments/ have someone hold you accountable

Speak only in alignment with your goals

Observe the miracles of each day and share them

Stay in action always- or else you miss the miracle  

Your values and intentions will dictate your actions and results. Without a foundation to build upon, each day is simply a random occurrence without a reference to duplicate it from. Creating your most powerful affirmation from you biggest challenge will cause an immediate breakthrough launching you into massive action. Pause more, listen more, and speak with precision asking brilliant questions that solve and serve your clients highest needs. Sharing the miracle of your day creates the possibility for more for yourself and others. Stay in the action of your intentions and your day and life will be the miracle.

This is adapted from an experiment from the book The Final Elimination of the source of Fear.

In your minds eye, picture yourself surrounded by everyone that you have ever done business with or would like to do business with. Imagine every quality that was required to meet and exceed their highest needs with you right now. Imagine hearing the voices and applause of praise for the work and dedication they experienced. Imagine each past client, each current client, each lead you have, each center of influence, every friend, every relative, each family member and all of those who you would like to one day assist with their Real Estate needs extolling their praise for a job well done.  Picture hearing the words fearless, calm,  powerful, dedicated, caring, genuine, dependable, heart felt as ways you are described. 

Hear how they felt it to be a miracle that you called just at the right time, bumped into them on the street, walked into your open house out of the blue, called them to say thank you for trusting you with their Real Estate needs, or greeted them in a way they immediately knew they could trust you. 

Picture all of you sitting comfortably together in such a way that everyone can easily join hands. Now as everyone join hands close your eyes and take a very deep relaxing breath. As you sit there together, each will perform the very same exercise that you will now perform your self, in your imagination. 

Take another deep breath. Relax and allow you physical body to let go. Now take a moment and quietly extend your heartfelt love to every person in the room. Allow their thoughts of gratitude to permeate every cells of your being. Know this cycle of gratitude began from you hoping that they all would simply become happy and receive whatever it is they need in life to be totally fulfilled as human beings. As you offered this to each with immense gratitude for who they would become in your life as reflection of your devotion to serving their highest needs, your success was instantly activated. Again you offer to them your heartfelt love and support that they will experience all that they desire in life to be supremely happy and actualized. You allow your mind to expand to the possibility that each of them is doing this same process for all the people that they care about. You allow your mind to expand even further imagining all those people doing the same for all the people they care about. You start to feel in your body how your thoughts are creating as you experience waves of energy flowing from you and to you. 

Take another deep breath. Now contemplate the people outside of this room that are not included within this experiment. Now extend your love and support toward everyone on the planet.  Offer everyone on earth your heartfelt love and support that each person alive today might become truly happy and fulfilled.  

Here is a passage from the book Uncovered- 40 Days to a Masterpiece-you  by Sandra Furber 

Love uncovers the truth by simply illuminating it. The truth is love is a stream of brilliant thought that will dissolve the veils to reveal the masterpiece you and your life have always been. Love is an unbridled artist that distracts our attention from the everyday to show us we have a purpose. It has been a long journey to discover this. Many rocks were turned over before I remembered what Michelangelo did to create David. He lifted nothing in search of his masterpiece; he simply liberated that which was already there.  How much time do we waste actually under the rock justifying our search of self, only to forget what we’re searching for and just stay there? This book is about getting the lessons from the rock and freeing the masterpiece. We are here to remember we are the finest form of art, an original, an absolute divine creation. We are that which inspires the art we have become awestruck by. We need to see ourselves as the source, the light of love, masterfully achieving brilliance, with dimension and clarity, in our own life. 

Michelangelo worked knowing the image of David was already in the block of stone as we must trust who we really are, our pure essence, is to be found also within a block of stone called our life. Chipping away the layers of the stone freeing what he knew to be already there, is how we must also free our self from the darkness created from our mind’s own perception. With this realization our hearts will begin to radiate fully, and  we will finally see our full selves for our self, once and for all. And it will be for all, as just one realization will begin a cosmic cascading of fully aware dominoes, illuminating the closest student to then become the next teacher… and so on.

To read more or email Sandra at sandra@furbercoaching with the subject “uncover me.”

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